this is what happens....

[mitzman]

The original message was received at Mon, 8 Jan 2001 01:28:45 -0500
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----- The following addresses had permanent fatal errors -----
<jaylive@earthlink.net>

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553 mail.the-mitz.com. config error: mail loops back to me (MX problem?)
554 <jaylive@earthlink.net>... Local configuration error

[Stackrat]

Yeah, it looks like your DNS MX record is wrong. What's your MX record look like?

[mitzman]

well, i think my friend hosting my dns said that my mx is mail.the-mitz.com
if not it's the-mitz.com (he's not around right now so i can't ask him).